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Being In A Relationship Doesn’t Cure Loneliness
Many people assume loneliness only happens when you’re single. But it’s possible to feel deeply lonely while sharing your life with someone. This piece explores why being in a relationship doesn’t automatically cure loneliness, and what that quiet feeling might be telling you.
3 min read


Conflict, Communication and Me (A Therapist Who Finds Conflict Uncomfortable)
A personal reflection on conflict, communication and learning to speak up despite finding tension uncomfortable.
5 min read


How Can I Talk to My Partner Without Them Getting Mad?
Struggling to share how you feel without conflict? This blog explores gentle, honest ways to speak up without carrying the emotional burden alone.
3 min read


Why does the New Year feel chaotic?
What if the New Year is inviting you to slow down, do less and share the load.
3 min read


Do I Have to Buy Everyone a Present at Christmas?
The number one thing on the Christmas to-do list is likely present buying. If it's solely your responsibility, it can turn into a mammoth task. Does it need to be this way?
3 min read


Why Relationship Imbalance Feels Worse at Christmas
Christmas pressure can deepen feelings of loneliness and imbalance in relationships. This blog explains why and offers gentle steps forward.
4 min read


Am I Too Needy? - A gentle exploration for people who feel too much or ask too little
This blog is for you if you are someone who cares deeply about your relationships and often questions whether your needs are valid. It is for the person who gives a lot, holds a lot, and sometimes feels undernourished in the process.
4 min read


Why Doesn’t My Partner Appreciate Me? - Understanding why it feels one sided and what you can gently do next
If you’ve ever wondered why your partner doesn’t appreciate all you do, this article offers clarity, compassion, and practical steps to start feeling seen again.
4 min read


“Why Do I Have to Ask?” The Invisible Labour of the Mental Load Carrier
It is not just about the dishes or the bin bag. It is about feeling unseen and unsupported. Learn how the invisible mental load impacts your wellbeing and what small steps can help you find balance again.
4 min read


Feeling Lonely in Your Relationship? Here’s How to Reconnect
Do you feel lonely in your relationships? It is possible to reconnect.
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5 Signs You’re Carrying Too Much Emotional or Mental Load
It's expected that we all have some amount of a mental load but are you carrying too much?
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Why “Words of Affirmation” Might Be Your Love Language if You Have Social Anxiety
Wanting reassurance is not needy, it's helping you to feel safe. Here's why words of affirmation may be important to you.
3 min read


Go Easy: 10 Gentle Ways to Build Your Self-Esteem
Here are 10 ways to gently build you self-esteem. Hopefully you'll find at least one that you can try today!
3 min read


What Do I Talk About in My First Therapy Session?
If you're feeling fearful to start therapy because the first session feels too daunting, I hope you find this post reassuring.
3 min read


I Have No Close Friends: Support from a Therapist Specialising in Connection
TLDR: It's not that you're not likeable! Read this post to find out what's going on and how you can create deeper connections.
4 min read


Am I A Boring Person?
It's a question I hear more often than you might think. Here's my take on the question.
4 min read


7 Things I’ve Learned working with Social Anxiety
Here are 7 truths I've learnt along the way since specialising in social anxiety.
3 min read


Why Do I Get Embarrassed Over 'Silly' Things?
The emotion you can't hide though you desperately wish you could. Why does it happen?! Find out here.
3 min read


Getting Started with Email Counselling
If you're considering starting email therapy with me, read this blog to learn how we get started!
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What Is Video Therapy? A Real-Time Connection from the Comfort of Your Home
Maybe you're considering therapy over video call or perhaps you didn't know it existed! Here's everything you need to know about video therapy with me.
3 min read
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